By Muriel Bristol | April 7, 2024
Ezekiel Hayes was born in Madbury, NH, March 9, 1768, son of Daniel and Sarah (Plummer) Hayes.
[Ezekiel Hayes] received from his father the land which became his homestead, adjoining the homesteads of his brothers Daniel and Ichabod. It was situated in West Milton at the southeast corner of the Hare Road, so-called, and the road to Milton Three Ponds. His brother Daniel had a house on the north side of the road opposite. These two fine old colonial houses have been destroyed by fire, and Ezekiel’s land long ago passed from the family (Richmond, 1936).
Ezecal Hayes headed a Milton household at the time of the First (1790) Federal Census, His household included one male aged 16-plus years [himself]. His household appeared in the enumeration between those of Danl Hayes and James Varney. (See Northeast Parish in the First (1790) Federal Census).
“He was a man of small stature, a fashionable dresser with his small clothes and silver knee buckles, and was known as a graceful dancer. He acquired a good property and was considered among the first people of his town” (Richmond, 1936).
Ezekiel Hayes was one of one hundred eighty-three inhabitants of Dover, Rochester, Somersworth, Barrington, and other places that petitioned the NH legislature, in January 1791, seeking a replacement Cocheco River bridge near the lower falls at Dover, NH. It would connect again the public road running from Portsmouth to Rochester and the “Upper Towns.” Prior bridges had been swept away by freshets in 1772 and 1785. Since the most recent bridge loss in the “memorable” freshet of October 1785, which took out many bridges, those seeking to cross the river at Dover had been obliged to travel much greater distance – and that involving a large hill – to the lower bridge near the landing.
… But in addition to these inconveniencies it Very frequently happens from the great Quantity of Lumber hauled to the landing that the lower road is in fact so Crowded with Teams that it is Difficult for horses & almost impracticable for Carriages to pass that way.
The petitioners suggested a lottery to finance the new bridge. They estimated its cost at about £300. Benjamin Scates, Beard Plumer, and John Plumer signed also. (See also Salmon Falls Sawmill Petition – 1797 and Milton Road Weight Petition – 1816).
Ezekiel Hayes married, October 13, 1796, Mehitable Gale, he of Rochester, NH, and she of Sanbornton, NH. Rev. Joseph Woodman performed the ceremony. She was born in Sanbornton, NH, May 26, 1777, daughter of Stephen and Mehitable (Plummer) Gale.
(The children of Ezekiel and Mehitable (Gale) Hayes were: Stephen Hayes (1797–1837), Nathaniel Hayes (1799–1835), John Hayes (1802–1847), Mehitable Hayes (1807–1832), and Eliza Hayes (1809–1871)).
Son Stephen Hayes was born in Rochester Northeast Parish, i.e., Milton, February 23, 1797. He was a namesake for his maternal grandfather, Stephen Gale. Son Nathaniel Hayes was born in Rochester Northeast Parish, i.e., Milton, August 2, 1799.
Ezekiel Hayes headed a Rochester, NH, household at the time of the Second (1800) Federal Census. His household included one male aged 26-45 years [himself], one female aged 16-25 years [Mehitable (Gale) Hayes], and three males aged under-10 years [Stephen, Nathaniel, and John Hayes (?)]. His household appeared in the enumeration between those of Daniel Hayes and Ichd Hayes. (See Northeast Parish in the Second (1800) Federal Census).
Ezekiel Hayes and his brothers, Daniel Hayes, Jr., and Ichabod Hayes signed the Rochester Division Petition of May 1802.
Son John Hayes was born in Rochester Northeast Parish, i.e., Milton, August 1, 1802.
The Milton Selectmen of 1803 were Will Palmer, John Fish, and Ezekiel Hayes.
At the first annual meeting held March 14, 1803, Beard Plumer was chosen moderator; Gilman Jewett, clerk; William Plumer [Palmer], John Fish, Ezekiel Hayes, selectmen; Beard Plumer, representative. One hundred and thirty-four votes were cast for governor, of which [Federalist] John Taylor Gilman had 103; [Democrat] John Langdon 31 (Scales, 1914).
Daughter Mehitable Hayes was born in Milton, June 19, 1807. Daughter Eliza Hayes was born in Milton, May 16, 1809.
Ezekiel Hayes had a Milton household at the time of the Third (1810) Federal Census. his household included one male aged 26-44 years [himself], one female aged 16-25 years [Mehitable (Gale) Hayes], two male aged 10-15 years [Stephen Hayes and Nathaniel Hayes], one male aged under-10 years [John Hayes], and two females aged under-10 years [Mehitable Hayes and Eliza Hayes]. His household appeared in the enumeration between those of Daniel Hayes and James Varney.
Ezekiel Hayes and his brothers, Daniel Hayes and Ichabod Hayes, contracted with the U.S. Government to provide ship timbers during the War of 1812.
In partnership with his brothers Ichabod and Ezekiel, he [Daniel Hayes] furnished ship timbers and masts by contract with the U.S. Government for the navy at the time of the War of 1812. The records of this partnership with the details of ship dimensions are preserved (Richmond, 1936).
Father-in-law Stephen Gale died in Sanborton, NH, July 9, 1815, aged seventy-nine years. Stepmother-in-law Phebe ((—-) Page) Gale died in Sanbornton, June 23, 1816, aged eighty-four years.
Mehitable (Gale) Hayes died in Milton, October 19, 1817, aged thirty-nine years, two months.
Tuesday, 21 [October 1817] – I went with my wife to Milton to the funeral of her Uncle Ezekiel Hayes’s wife, who Starved her Self to Death under Conviction that She was not one of the Elect that must be Saved. O my God what evil the doctrins of men have done (NEHGS, 1998).
(The diarist, Freewill Baptist Rev. Enoch Hayes Place (1786-1865) of Strafford, NH, was husband to Sally V. (Demeritt) Place (1789-1880). Her mother, Sarah (Hayes) Demerritt (1764-1855), was a sister of Ezekiel Hayes).
Ezekiel Hayes and his eldest son, Stephen Hayes, signed the Milton anti-division remonstrance of June 1820. (See Milton Anti-Division Remonstrance – June 1820 and Milton Militia Dispute – 1820).
Daughter Mehitable Hayes married, in 1824, Asa Brewster Hayes, she of Milton and he of Farmington, NH. Rev. James Walker performed the ceremony. Hayes was born in Farmington, NH, May 2, 1804, son of Wentworth and Tamson (Hayes) Hayes.
Son John Hayes married, January 13, 1825, Sarah Wingate. She was born in Farmington, NH, December 19, 1803, daughter of John and Mary (Cate) Wingate. (His sister, Eliza Hayes, would marry her brother, John C. Wingate).
Ezekiel Hayes headed a Milton household at the time of the Fourth (1830) Federal Census. His household included one male aged 60-69 years [himself], one male aged 30-39 years [Stephen Hayes], and one female aged 20-29 years [Eliza Hayes]. His household appeared in the enumeration between those of Joshua Ray and John Hayes.
Wentworth Hayes, Esq., headed a Farmington, NH, household at the time of the Fifth (1830) Federal Census. His household included one male aged 50-59 years [himself], one female aged 40-49 years [Tamsen (Hayes) Hayes], one male aged 20-29 years [Asa B. Hayes], one female aged 20-29 years [Mehitable (Hayes) Hayes], one female aged 15-19 years, one male aged 10-14 years, one male aged under-5 years [Asa B. Hayes, Jr.], and one female aged under-5 years.
John Hayes headed a Milton household at the time of the Fourth (1830) Federal Census. His household included one male aged 20-29 years [himself], two females aged 20-29 years [Sarah (Wingate) Hayes], one male aged 5-9 years, one female aged under-5 years [Mehitable Hayes], one male aged under-5 years [John W. Hayes]. His household appeared in the enumeration between those of Ezekiel Hayes and Daniel Hayes, Jr.
Ezekiel Hayes of Milton was elected to the Executive Committee of the Strafford County Agricultural Society in October 1830. (Nehemiah Eastman of Farmington, NH, who would witness Hayes’ last will in 1839, was elected President of the society).
STRAFFORD, (N.H.) CATTLE SHOW. The Cattle Show and Exhibition of articles of Domestic Industry of the Strafford Agricultural Society was held at Gilmanton, on the 6th and 7th of October. – We have not room for a detailed statement of the premiums &c. The following gentlemen were elected officers for the coming year. Nehemiah Eastman of Farmington, President. Wm. Hale, jr. of Barrington, 1st. vice do, Jeremiah Wilson, Gilmanton, 2d, do do, Francis Cogswell, Ossipee, C. Secretary, Daniel Pickering, Wolfborough, Treasurer, John Ham, Gilmanton, R. Secretary. EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE. Augustus Rollins, Somersworth. Ezekiel Hayes, Milton. Daniel Tucker, Meredith. Richard Furber, Centre Harbor. Paul Wentworth, Sandwich. Francis P. Smith, Ossipee. Elisha Rollins, Wakefield (New England Farmer (Boston, MA), November 19, 1830).
Son Nathaniel Hayes married in Sanbornton, NH, July 19, 1831, Phebe Moody, he of Somersworth, NH, and she of Sanbornton, NH. Rev. Abram Bodwell performed the ceremony. She was born in Sanbornton, NH, December 25, 1799, daughter of Bradstreet and Ednah (Gale) Moody.
Son-in-law Asa B. Hayes died of consumption in Barrington, NH, March 18, 1832, aged twenty-seven years, ten months, and sixteen days.
Daughter Eliza Hayes married, June 21, 1832, John Cate Wingate. He was born in Farmington, NH, October 15, 1802, son of John and Mary (Cate) Wingate). (Her brother, John Hayes, had married his sister, Sarah Wingate).
They lived first in Farmington, till 1836; rem with his father to Northwood, for one year, and thence to Sanbornton Bridge in 1837. He here carried on the blacksmith’s trade; was an ordained deacon of the Congregational Church, and greatly beloved by his pastor (Runnells, 1881).
Daughter Mehitable (Hayes) Hayes died in Farmington, NH, December 28, 1832.
The officers of the NH 39th Militia Regiment in 1834 were Colonel Daniel Waldron, Lt. Colonel Stephen Hayes, and Major Richard Nutter. Other officers included Adjutant J.B. Edgerly, of Farmington, NH, and Quartermaster Jos. C. Wentworth, of Milton (Claremont Manufacturing, 1834).
Son Nathaniel Hayes died in Brookfield, NH, July 10, 1835, aged thirty-five years. At the time of his death he was “Steward of the Methodist Church.” (“The grave contains what thousands idolized but the shrine of the Christian is Heaven”).
His widow, Phebe (Moody) Hayes, married (2nd) William Tyler Trickey (renamed later to William Tyler Milton). He was born in Rochester, NH, March 6, 1795, and served in Capt. William Courson’s Co. during the War of 1812. He does not appear in the list of Milton’s militiamen. He apparently joined or succeeded them in Portsmouth, NH (His first wife, Olive (Pierce) Trickey, died in September 1834).
The U.S. Post Office Department appointed John Hayes as the third Chestnut Hill [West Milton] Postmaster on March 19, 1836. (See Milton’s First Postmasters (1818-c1840)).
Stephen Hayes of Milton, gentleman, made his last will, May 2, 1837. He bequeathed $5 to his honorable father, Ezekiel Hayes; one-third of his estate, both real and personal, to his brother, John Hayes; one-third of his estate, both real and personal, to Ada Brewster Hayes [Jr.] and Tamson Mehitable Hayes, children of his late sister, Mehitable Hayes; and one-third of his estate, both real and personal, to Eliza Wingate, wife of John C. Wingate. He appointed his brother, John Hayes, as his executor. Nehemiah Eastman, Calvin S. Horne, and Apphia Wingate signed as witnesses (Strafford County Probate, 52:107).
Son Stephen Hayes died in Milton, June 8, 1837, aged thirty-nine years, eight months. His last will was proved in a Strafford County Probate court, held in Sanbornton, NH, June 27, 1837 (Strafford County Probate, 51:108).
Ezekiel Hayes of Milton made his last will, March 11, 1839. He devised $250 in money, as well as any notes he might have at the time of his death, to his daughter, Eliza Wingate. He bequeathed $250 each to Tamson Mehitable Hayes and Asa Brewster Hayes, children of his late daughter, Mehitable Hayes. (He had received the money from the estate of his late son, Nathaniel Hayes). He devised his homestead farm, and any residue, upon which he then lived, to his son, John Hayes. He named his son John Hayes as executor, and asked also that the executor arrange for a gravestone equal to that erected for the executor’s mother. Thomas T. Edgerly, Mark Demerit, and Nehemiah Eastman signed as witnesses. (Strafford County Probate, 59:424).
In his will, drawn 11 Mar. 1839 and proved 7 Nov. 1843, he gave to his daughter Eliza Wingate $250, together with all notes due him; to Tamson Mehitable and Asa Brewster, “children of my late daughter Mehitable Hayes, $200 each the money hereby bequeathed being a part of estate descended to me from my late son Nathaniel Hayes”; to son John the homestead and residue of estate, and John was made executor (Strafford County Probate, vol. 59, p. 424) (Richmond, 1936).
John Hayes headed a Milton household at the time of the Sixth (1840) Federal Census, His household included one male aged 30-39 years [himself], one female aged 30-39 years [Sarah (Wingate) Hayes], one male aged 10-14 years [John Hayes], one female aged 10-14 years [Eliza Hayes], one male aged under-5 years, one female aged under-5 years, one male aged 70-79 years [Ezekiel Hayes], and one female aged 20-29 years. Three members of his household were engaged in Agriculture.
John C. Wingate headed a Sanbornton, NH, household at the time of the Sixth (1840) Federal Census, His household included one male aged 30-39 years [himself], one female aged 30-39 years [Eliza (Hayes) Wingate], one female aged 5-9 years [Mary J. Wingate], and two males aged under-5 years [John Wingate and Stephen Wingate], one male aged 20-29 years, and one female aged 15-19 years. Two members of his household was engaged in Manufacture and Trade.
Rev. Enoch Hayes Place (1786-1865) of Strafford, NH, visited with his wife’s surviving Hayes uncles in West Milton in 1841.
Fri 10 [September 1841] – Went to Milton to viset My wifes Uncles Daniel & Ezekiel Hayes Esquires – good viset (NEHGS, 1998).
Ezekiel Hayes died in Milton, October 8, 1843, aged seventy-five years, seven months. His last will was proved November 7, 1843 (Strafford County Probate, 59:426).
Son John Hayes died in Rochester, NH, May 27, 1847, aged forty-four years, ten months.
Sarah [(Wingate)] Hayes, aged forty-six years (b. NH), headed a Rochester, NH, household at the time of the Seventh (1850) Federal Census. Her household included John W. Hayes, a stable keeper, aged twenty-two years (b. NH), Henry Hayes, a shoemaker, aged fifteen years (b. NH), Mary F. Hayes, aged ten years (b. NH), Betsy Hayes, aged thirty-two years (b. NH), and Sarah Currier, aged twenty-two years. Sarah Hayes had real estate valued at $1,200.
William Milton, a lumberman, aged fifty-six years (b. NH), headed a Cicero, NY, household at the time of the Seventh (1850) Federal Census. His household included Phebe [((Moody) Hayes)] Milton, aged thirty [fifty] years (b. NH). William Milton had real estate valued at $4,000.
John C. Wingate, a blacksmith, aged forty-seven years (b. NH), headed a Sanbornton, NH, household at the time of the Seventh (1850) Federal Census. His household included Eliza [(Hayes)] Wingate, aged forty-one years (b. NH), Mary J. Wingate, aged sixteen years (b. NH), John Wingate, aged fourteen years (b. NH), Stephen Wingate, aged twelve years (b. NH), Henry Wingate, aged eight years, Ann E. Wingate, aged five years (b. NH), and Caroline Wingate, aged two years (b. NH). John C. Wingate had real estate valued at $1,000.
John C. and Eliza (Hayes) Wingate left Sanbornton, NH, and removed to Janesville, WI, in 1853.
In Sept. 1853, he rem to Janesville, Wis. (Runnells, 1881).
Sarah [(Wingate)] Hayes, aged fifty-six years (b. NH), aged forty-six years (b. NH), headed a Rochester, NH, household at the time of the Eighth (1860) Federal Census. Her household included Mahitable [(Hayes)] Whitehouse, aged thirty-four years, Mary F. Hayes, a common s. teacher, aged twenty years, Mary F. Whitehouse, aged ten years, A. Messer, a daguerreotype artist, aged thirty-five years, and Fanny Messer, aged twenty years. Sarah Hayes had real estate valued at $1,000 and personal estate valued at $2,000. Mahitable Whitehouse had personal estate valued at $1,500.
William Milton, a farmer, aged sixty-five years (b. NH), headed a West Monroe, NY, household at the time of the Eighth (1860) Federal Census. His household included Pheba [((Moody) Hayes)] Milton, a domestic, aged sixty years (b. NH), Thomas T. Milton, a farmer, aged forty years (b. NH), Franklin Milton, a farmer, aged eighteen years (b. NH), and William Belknap, a farmer, aged twenty-four years (b. NY). William Milton had real estate valued at $12,000 and personal estate valued at $2,000.
J.C. Wingate, a blacksmith, aged fifty-eight years (b. NH), headed a Decatur, WI, household at the time of the Eighth (1860) Federal Census. His household included Elisa [(Hayes)] Wingate, aged fifty-one years (b. NH), Anna E. Wingate, aged fifteen years (b. NH), and Caroline Wingate, aged eleven years (b. NH). J.C. Wingate had real estate valued at $600 and personal estate valued at $200.
Daughter-in-law Sarah (Wingate) Hayes died in Rochester, NH, in July 1863.
Son-in-law John C. Wingate died in Janesville, WI, November 26, 1867, aged sixty-five years.
He d. [in Janesville, WI] after an illness of several months, Nov. 26, 1867, ae. 65. He was there also deacon, and “none in Janesville were ever known to speak evil of him” (Runnells, 1881).
Alter Younraus [Winersky], at home, aged seventy-three years (b. NY), headed a Hastings, NY, household at the time of the Ninth (1870) Federal Census. His household included C. Corinda Younraus, keeping house, aged sixty-six years (b. NY), Thomas Woodbeck, farming, aged eighteen years (b. NY), William Milton, lumbering, aged seventy-five years (b. NY), and Phoebe [((Moody) Hayes)] Milton, visiting, aged seventy-years (b. NY). Alter Younras had personal estate valued at $1,900.
J.H. Wingate, a furniture dealer, aged thirty-four years (b. NH), headed a Janesville, WI, household at the time of the Ninth (1870) Federal Census. His household included Anna M. Wingate, keeps house, aged thirty years (b. NH), Chas. H. Wingate, aged ten years (b. WI), Henry K. Wingate, age five years (b. WI), Willie S. Wingate, aged two years (b. ME), Fannie M. Wingate, aged nine months (b. ME), Fannie [Eliza] [(Hayes)] Wingate, aged sixty-two years (b. NH), Ama E. Wingate, aged thirty-five years (b. NH), Carrie Wingate, aged twenty-one years (b. NH), and Matilda Schroder, a domestic servant, aged seventeen years (b. WI).
Daughter Eliza (Hayes) Wingate died in Janesville, WI, March 8, 1872.
PERSONAL. Mrs. Eliza Wingate, twenty years a resident of Janesville, died on Thursday evening from the effects of an apoplectic fit (Green Bay Weekly Gazette, [Saturday,] March 16, 1872).
Daughter-in-law Phebe ((Moody) Hayes) Milton died in Brewerton, NY, March 15, 1883.
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Claremont Manufacturing Co. (1834). New Hampshire Register and Farmer’s Almanac. Retrieved from books.google.com/books?id=U-gWAAAAYAAJ&pg=PA79
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